Muslims would have
understood that fasting in Ramadan, there are three things that must be avoided
when the fasting. They are eating, drinking and sex with the wife during the
day. If it is in broken, then that person has failed to carry out the fast.
Especially for jima (having sex with his wife) at noon. According to Islamic
law, there is serious threat given for Muslim husband and wife that having sex
during the day in Ramadan. His doubt is replaced by fasting for two consecutive
months. That is, if that happens then there goes the chance of the husband and
wife is to get the reward of Allah abundantly provided through practice and
worship during Ramadan.
Then, if the
entire month we were not allowed to have sex? The answer is "NO".
Islam is the the most tolerant religion in the world. Islam was never
burdensome to carry out all his time in activities, whether related to worship
or muamalah. Increase in sexual desire during Ramadan than other month, it is
generally recognized, as the favors of Allah that can still be felt in the
evening. Especially for married couples who are hoping given the child's
offspring. In the month of Ramadan prayer will be granted, but certainly not
just pray alone, efforts must still be done.
For couples who
are married, sexual activity has become a liability. Sexual activity between
couples legally married is worship. These activities must be done after the
break. In the history of the Hadith, there is a blessing for the wife expressed
a desire to serve her husband enjoying sex at night. '' To a man invites his
wife to sleep with, in his bed, and his wife refused, until the night of mad
husband, angels curse the wife until the morning.'' (Narrated by Bukhari,
Muslim). So, do not have patience to do it in the daytime during Ramadan,
fasting is done in order to get the pleasure of Allah as believers who fear
Him.
This is where the
word "blessing" finding context. By keeping the principles of Islamic
Shari'a in relation to the ethics of conjugal sex, sex blessings will envelop
the couple themselves. Blessing in itself, as stated by the scholars, is
increasing goodness and peace.
Thus, the blessed
beautiful sex, is sex to uphold the principles of Islamic Sharia without being
stiff (rigid) in its implementation, so that marital sex is not only wonderful,
but also full of grace, in which sexual relations will be amplifier for the
husband and wife, creator of harmony, peace of mind and seedsman in the
household. May all our worship in the month of Ramadan to be a blessing Amiin
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