APPLYING HEALTHY SEX (Jima ') IN ISLAM Part 1

As part of the nature of humanity, Islam has never suppress sexual desire. Islam provides a complete guide to sex can still enjoy a Muslim without losing the value of worship. As one purpose of the implementation of marriage, sexual intercourse, according to Islam, including one of religious worship that is highly recommended and contains a very large reward value. Because jima 'in the bond of marriage is halal way provided by God to vent his desire to connect the human and biological descendants of the sons of Adam.

In addition jima' lawful rewarding also a great worship. Prophet Shollallohu 'Alaihi Wasallam said, "In nakedness was no charity." The companions then asked, "O Messenger of Allah, are we rewarded by intercourse with our wives?." He replied, "After all, if you distribute illicit passion in the way that would sin? Then vice versa, if channeled in a lawful way, you will be rewarding. "(Narrated by Bukhari, Abu Dawud and Ibn Khuzaimah)

Because the noble aims and it is worth worship each sex in the household must be done purposefully, which is in accordance with the guidance of the Quran and the sunna of the Prophet Shollallohu 'Alaihi Wasallam. The ethics of sex (Jima ') in Islam can be divided in three circumstances, namely:

1.      The Ethics before Jima '

2.      The Ethics when Jima '

3.      The Ethics after Jima '

The Ethics before Jima '

a.       In Islam, if you want to have intercourse on the first thing to do is married. Marriage is a necessary condition to be able to have intercourse in Islam. In Islam, every Jima 'is legally between husband and wife will be rewarded according to the Word of Rasullullah sallahu alaihi above.

b.      The next step, choose a day and a good time / sunnah to have sex.

Good day to all jima 'but the best day to jima' and no statement in the hadith is Friday. Rasulullah SAW said "Whosoever intercourse with his wife to perform ghusl on Friday and went to the mosque, and hurried on foot, do not drive, and close to the Imam after he listened to the sermon and not waste it, then his reward for every step of his feet like a reward charity for a year, that is the reward of fasting and prayer night and in it "(Abu Dawud, An Nasa'i, Ibn Majah and sanad of this hadith declared invalid).

c.       The next step is to use the preferred perfume husband / wife before having intim.

Using perfume for women before jima is sunnah because it would further increase the desire to improve the quality of the spouses in relation husband and wife. It is based on the following hadith: Four kinds of between sunnah of the Prophet is: Compassionate, wear fragrances, bersiwak and married (Narrated by Tirmidhi).

d.      Next Dress and dress up like a husband / wife before jima '

And the last is pray for God's protection before Jima ':
"Bismillah. Jannabnasyoithona Allahumma wa maa jannabisyaithona rojaktanaa "
The meaning: With Allah's name. oh Allah, put away of satan from me and keep what you have gave to us from syetan.

Rasulullah saw said: When one of you would intercourse with his wife, let read: "Bismillah. O Allah, keep us from Satan and keep Satan from what you bestowed to us ". For if the destined relationship between the two of them bear a child, then Satan will not harm the child forever. (Saheeh Muslim No.2591).

Keywords: healthy sex (jima ') in islam, The ethics of sex (Jima ').

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