Two ethics having healthy sex in Islam have discussed in
a previous article. You have to know the last Ethic
having healthy sex in Islam, so your sex activities will be full of blessing
and reward from Allah SWT. The last ethics in the sense having sex in Islam is THE
ETHICS AFTER HAVING SEX (Jima ').
Here are the things that should you do
after having sex with your wife.
1. Not immediately leave the husband / wife after jima '.
2. Washing the genitals and perform ablutions if you want
to doing Jima’ again. '
From Abu Sa'id, the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa
sallam said, "If any one of you came to his wife, then he wants to doing
sex again, then let him perform ablution." (Narrated by Muslim, no. 308)
3. Pray after Jima’
4. Large shower / bath (junub) after jima '.
"From Ubai bin Ka` b, he said: "O Messenger of Allah, if a man
has intercourse with his wife, but did not issue a seminal, what should he do? Rasulullah said, "Let him
wash the parts relating to female genitalia, wudlu, and then prayed. (Narrated
by Bukhâriy in the Book / The Book of Bath, the hadith to-290
That's four things you should do. In addition to this article,
there are some things that are prohibited in having sex (jima’) in Islam:
a. Doing Jima ' when the wife in a state of menstruation
Allah SWT said: "They ask you about menstruation. Say: "menstruation is the dirt". Therefore be ye abstain from
women in the menstruation; and do not approach them, before they are holy. If they have sacred, then
intercourse with them was in a place that Allah commanded you. Truly Allah loves those who
repent and loves those who purify themselves. "(Al-Baqarah : 222)
b. Jima ' from the back (sodomy).
Of Abi Hurairah Radhiallahu'anhu. The Messenger Shallallahu'alaihi
wasallam said, "damned people intercourse with a woman in the anus ". (Reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawud and An-Nasa'i)
c. Doing Jima’ withuot using the cover / bare
From 'Atabah bin Abdi As-Sulami that if you go to his
wife (doing jima'), then use the cover and do not let bare as two tails himar. (Reported by Ibn Majah)
May be useful and further add to our devotion of Allah
SWT.
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Nasrudin Latif, S.Pd, M.Pd.I -